My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

I have heard the same thing many times, and now H is terrified of D, but won't come home either. Anyway think of it this way (I always try to put a positive spin), H loves you enough and has enough respect for you that he doesn't want you to keep dealing with his stupidness. Now I understand that you don't want the D, and love H a lot, but at least it is a good way to think about it.

Maybe you can go to the beach today.