Somehow, I don't think if you extended a hand to your H that he would reject you...when 2 are afraid of rejection the only way to get around it is for one to take the first step...
If H didn't want to leave, had ended the A, and is with OW only because he fears being alone I would think you have a very good chance of working on things and coaxing him to consider returning home...
A stale mate continues as long a no one makes a move...
I think this is very well put.
Even when my H was having his A, it turned out we were both lying in bed next to one another wanting to reach out but both of us were afraid of rejection.
Jac - you on FB? I have problems with L4/5 also with between my shoulder blades and C4,5 and 6. My spine is ageing way faster than it should; I am scared and it hurts. I am on so many pain killers and due to pain can't keep much weight on me as I have trouble eating and sleeping.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
