My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

Well I did not make it to the beach today. H came over and wanted to talk d again....he is pushing for me to sign the papers. He still doesn't know what will make him happy. But a d needs to happen in his opinion because he is unhappy, gets a lump in his throat when he comes over, doesn't miss me or the dog or his fishing dock. He is broken, tired and damaged goods in his opinion and it isn't fair to me. I guess it is fair to the ow???

H doesn't want anything from the d. He just wants out and I can have everything. He is a liar about the ow.... But I still truly think he is deeply depressed. He said today that he is broken and he isn't taking drugs or going to see a psych dr. Apparently getting help for yourself isn't an idea that makes sense to him...

I told him I would agree to the d and look into keeping the house. However, I am not going to do anything more beyond that. If he wants to give up and get a d then he is going to have to work for it. I am pretty sure we will have to sell the house ( at a loss, thank you h)...