Cathy, And no talking to OW (that's a cheeseless tunnel...) or anyone else that would tell you things re H and OW. You don't need that. Plus, I guarantee H will find out and it will send your R backwards. It will be seen a manipulative.
This is a difficult sitch. H is at home, but not because HE necessarily wanted to come home. He is going to have to do his OW recovery at home. Unfortunately, he is watching YOUR every move, so I know it will be stressful for you. But you have knowledge on your side. You know where he is going when he goes there. DB, DB, DB.
Every move you make, think first. Pray first. Take care of yourself.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
