Thanks, C-Bart. But any thoughts on what is best to do? My thoughts are to put it out there ... it can always be taken away or used as negotiating tool. The legal side stinks, but, unfortunately, needs to be approached wisely--especially when kids are involved. State will allow for a certain amount in child care ... but ultimately, it's up to us to determine what it is going to take to bring up our children. Unfortunately, the divorce process makes the marital covenant a legal, contractual issue determined by the State courts.
I'm trying to protect my children. I could care less about my lifestyle.
