Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

wii, I read your advice and posts already and most of them really are funny!

FM, thanks I've started reading some of their posts but I haven't yet found a 'plan' or a 'strategy'. I'll keep searching.

Journaling:
So DD didn't call me yesterday and I wasn't going to not talk to her tonight too. So instead I called and STBXW answered the phone. I just said "Can I talk to DD please?" - I didn't say hi or anything. She kinda fumbled "hi, mmm yeah hold on a sec, she's having strawberries". No response from me, then she hands the phone to DD. I didn't feel like being nice to STBXW especially since she's been ignoring my emails.

DD and I had such a nice long conversation tonight. She kept telling me how she missed me and then she turned to her mom and said "mommy can daddy come visit another time?" then she said "daddy, mommy said you can come tomorrow for mother's day". I said "no sweetie tomorrow's mother's day and mommy probably made plans to spend time with you, (roommate), (roommate's D) but I'll pick you up from school on Mon".

Then we just talked and talked and laughed and joked for half an hour. She was in a good mood and wanted to keep talking probably because her friend (roommate's D) wasn't there tonight. Lately she's been saying that the 7yo is mean to DD. So again tonight she said but this time whispering it. I'm sure STBXW told her to not say that or not say it in front of the girl's mom so DD whisphered it instead. I guess the honeymoon period maybe coming to an end and hopefully STBXW and the roommate buddy are starting to get on eachother's nerves too! hey one can wish!

So I plan on staying completely dark tomorrow not even texting Happy Mother's Day to her. Unless you guys advise differently?