I've read this and thought about it and my feeling is why close any door? I mean if I'm out tomorrow and someone beautiful catches my eye and we somehow hit it off, I think it'd be silly to say to myself "hey, it hasn't been enough time yet."
I agree. That would be my example of someone "showing up."
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
A friend said as soon as she stopped looking for someone, he usually shows up.
I believe this is true. And I believe when one stops looking (i.e., stops needing an R) one is truly ready for one again.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
