I got an email saying stbxH wasn't coming until Monday to get his stuff. ..... There is a knock on the door and it's him. I kinda freaked cuz I wasn't expecting but it went ok.
Not even a phone call to inform you of his change of plans? Disrespectful. Boundary-violating. Effing with your head, too, perhaps, keeping you off balance.
Originally Posted By: luvless
I think he was surprised I had them all boxed up and his empty closet filled with my things.
Ha! Good for you! Reality. Consequences.
Originally Posted By: luvless
He had the nerve to ask me for a bottle of wine from Mumm (a vineyard in Napa Valley) we went two years ago and bought 4 bottles of really good stuff. I said, "no...I gave you back the Monogamy bottle you gave me." ha!
Love it!
It is what he wanted. It was his choice. Try not to feel bad (for him). It's hard. I know.
Originally Posted By: luvless
my life as I knew it...OVER.
Your new, eventually better, life as you don't know it yet it is about to start! Stay strong. Stay positive.
(((Luv)))]
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
