Libby, Your H seems to be reconnecting with the children nicely...that's what they are supposed to do first, then they reconnect with friends and family and you will be the last.
It's great that you are posting play-by-play of what's going on, good way to monitor progress.
You are doing great
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO