There seems to be a turmoil of guilt from her.. push pull push pull etc.

There's always the straight forward approach too. Tell her the truth. You realize she's in a bad place "right now"... and you would like to be there for her, but you don't know how.

I'm not sure it's the right time for that just yet though - leave it in your back pocket as a last resort thing.

Has she come right out and said, leave me alone? Where there exchanges of something like that from her?... and then did she flip flop on that too?

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.