I have been thinking along the same lines as you HB.
I think that the first time they left their spouses, they both knew that the doors were wide open for them to come back...and they did. Now with OW's H making a stand and me being dark they are not so sure.
I also believe that when both people make such a tremendous sacrifice to be with the other, their expectations of that person will be that much greater. "I left my family for you, you better be what I want you to be"... Lots of pressure and baggage. The expectations will be hard to live-up to.
But this will take time...their hormones are still raging LOL
Thank you for the "hedge of thorns" prayer idea. I have lots of FAITH & BELIEF and I will definitely use it
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
