Well we ended up talking about it this evening. She IM'ed me to see if she could have the kids tomorrow. Of course I said she could. I asked why she was afraid of what other people think. She said she wasn't afraid but her issue was the perception would be that there was more than a friendship between us. That it was one thing to IM and text but a whole other to be on a very public forum. I brought up the fact that she's the one that has told everyone that we talk all the time. She relented but said she would be pissed at her family if they start harrassing her more than they already do about us getting back together.

I found that statement odd. At my request a few months ago, her family has made a conscious effort to not even talk about me and to go along with her when she says that we're not getting back together. Is she questioning things in her mind about us and projecting onto her family?

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