reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

So where do I go from here? The note was probably a mistake, but I know that I cannot dwell on each setback. I am already driving myself crazy and being completely consumed by this sitch.

She said today (before the note) that is cannot bring herself to be in public.

I am so completely torn between blowing her off and letting her wallow in her own selfpity, and trying to reach out and care for her. I don't know what is right and what is wrong. Right now I think I should just forget it, realize it is over and move on. But my sould is telling me different. I am screwed no matter what I do.

Sorry if this thread is repetitive. Thank you for helping me deal with all these demons and unclear thinking.