I would say don't disrespect yourself by continuing to sleep with that man.
May be you now need the last resort technique. Totally cut him off, remove all his stuff from your house, and go dark. Draw the line...her or me! It appears the OW has done this
Quote: OW told him if you leave I'm going bring the F***** bass boat over and dump it in your yard
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When I found out about my h's ow, I confronted him and her very nicely (though I felt like ripping their heads OFF!), told them both I was not giving up on my m, and then went dark. After 1.5 months, my h came back around without her.
You are in my thoughts. Don't let him get to you...he's the messed up one and you've got your head on straight. Protect YOURSELF and leave him alone.