BD, your H wants a baby so badly! That's so great. I hope he comes around, I really do.
NM, I didn't answer the question about three years ago. I don't know. I'm racking my brain right now, but I'm not coming up with much. Maybe just that we started seeing them more often? Hmm. Going to keep thinking.
Well, back in 2005 when we were about to leave the Peace Corps, he says that we had a fight about having kids. I do not remember it. I think it could be true, I don't know. He says that back then I said if he didn't want kids that I didn't want to be with him. I could have said that. I don't remember the fight, but it's possible. For some reason it really bothers him because he's mentioned it quite a few times since our split. (Is he trying to blame it on me? I don't know.) But maybe his Mom Resentment started around then.
Got back from breastfeeding class: soooo informative! I feel a lot better about the whole thing. We'll see how it goes!