Just found out she already filed

[flowmom]

HotRomeo, go and read up on those guys and then come back and ask questions. Seriously, look up their posts. They lay out the game plan over and over...it`s all there for you to read.

HINT: many of your statements to your W should start with: I`ve decided

I`m not the right person to advise you because I`m not an expert on manly behaviour...but those guys know how it`s done and their wisdom is there for you.