Thank you all for your sweet comments. C and I have been friends forever - through good and bad. No one could relate to her like me when her H left her for OW but I never had to deal with something of this magnitude.
I drove home from the cottage and was there for several hours today. They seem to be doing ok but some of the talk was very hard on the girls. They had some friends there so that helped. One of the girls friends actually saw him jump.
One of the daughters wanted to let OW know. C was outraged and does not want her anywhere near. He had broke up with OW and I really understand how my friend feels. I hope OW stays away.
I am going to the funeral home tommorrow to help her plan the funeral. It is so surreal as she was just getting the divorce stuff done and bought a condo to move into (the house has sold - new people move in June 28). We are hoping that his insurance policies pay out for suicides as she has maxed out the line of credit since he refused to pay her support for the past 12 months and she did not work. So there is nothing. I hope she finds this out soon so she can stop stressing.
And his family came today from out of town. I was worried they might try to blame her and that is one of the reasons I really wanted to get her back. They were ok, though. I think they realize that some of the things he had told them about her are really not true. She was married to him for 25 years and raised lovely girls.
