Well lot's of changes in my sitch in the past day. i called to schedule meeting with wife to divide up last of assets and get D finalized last nite. We talk for a while and she does want to have a face to face discussion in the morning. So we talk this morning and some of our true feelings come out. She needs to know if I could ever forgive her for what she has done. I said if you are remorseful, and are open and honest about what i need to know. I also said that one of you has to quit your job. She said we need to figure out some things and really discuss what we both need to have in the future going forward. She said she needs a day or two to get everything else set, but she said if we plan to work on us, it is not because of the kids or finances, it is because she loves me and wants to be with me forever.
She said we would both have to commit 100 percent for the rest of our lives that we will always work on us. Divorce would no longer be an option for us. I guess i was kind of blown away because I hear so many others on this board trying to get any real commitment.... So she just called, told her BF that she wants to work on her marriage. She said he is irate and he may call me. I said I have nothing to say to that POS and if he wants to get together I will let my fists do the talking. She did seem honest today and her actions are backing her up. I am quite impressed with the strength of my W.
