Babydoll have you asked your H to go to counselling with you?Sorry cant remember if you discussed that.I think you have got to do what is important to you over the coming weeks buts as gatsby said with zero expectations from H.Personally talking from experience I would have him in the delivery room.It does completely change an H view but in a good way and perhaps he has to realise that your R throughout life goes on a journey with you and as it does it will change to something much more special that the lust/infatuation some of our H have found with Ow(fools). A baby needs both its parents.Perhaps after the delivery he maybe more open to moving back in and working to build a family.Cos it take alot of work and building to make a marriage and family....lots of hugs)))).(My 2 D's are 14/20 and I can still remember kicking..nothing to beat it shame dads dont experience it!)
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith