WN, although my original DDay was 1/09, WH started his A 10/08 (I suspect the EA started earlier).

Yesterday I thought- maybe this is the REAL WH and I lived with a phony...heck we were only together for 5 years when he left! But in your case, you knew your H waaaaay longer so you know the real him. Did you hear that Rielle Hunter (J Edward's OW) who said she was helping "Johnny" to live his "authentic life" and to discover his "authentic self." Ha! Apparently he lived 50+ years under a false identity (so to speak)? And thanks to her, he suddenly found his authentic self when he met her! What a crock!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004