Just another broken heart

[JacT]

Ok it easy to look at the negatives which in this sitch is also easy.Lets look at from another view point.She has been to Italy with this creep and realised he is a serial womaniser and that he cannot keep his eyes or what hides behind his zip from wandering. Shes not a fool and I am sure he sounds like someone who is sleezy flirtatious.
She has proabably heard you are moving on,GAL, dating, house sparkling clean.She hasnt been around so you must have someone else.Her carry ons were fine as long as she was secure..now shes not so sure either from the creeps view point or your view point.
She doesnt have any real reson to be nosey but she does owe you money so decides she wont post it, she will drop it off to see for herself whats going on.
She arrives, you are cool calm collected and have a nice dinner cooking, behave as if you couldnt care less but you are respectful and show her the door.You make all the right moves first..spot on.
She leaves and is totally crazy wondering whats going on..ha.
Lees she is not in love trust me..no way..she is using him to make herself feel better.You said she didnt look so good, the strain of the R is telling.
He is never around..workaholic I think you said...and shes goin to be left on her pretty little a$$ when he is off doing what he does..pulling pretty woman.
That said, and I know its hard, she hasnt been away for a long time..its still early days..but this R aint gonna last.
What you have to decide is would you want to give her another chance or are you starting to move on.Whaatever keep doing what your doing.I think she may be starting to have regrets.
She could be in MLC..what was her childhood like?
She's not going to file just now...I am in my 10 month and not totally detached its hard..but it gets easier..hang in there and see what she does next?