I didn't have a clue how that certain brain chemicals were sent to the brain that caused "feel good" emotions that were like feeling "in love". Put that with the huge fantasy, and you have big problems.
He is not "just friends" with this woman. He cannot phase her out of his life. It's cold turkey or nothing at all. Phasing out is not only an excuse to continue his A but it is very disrespectful to you. If you turn him out on the street and refuse to have anything to do with him....plus start having a new life for yourself, he'll get his act together. But as long as you pine away for him.....he'll eat his cake and be happy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
