I think you have the right frame of mind. If he normally doesn't do the R talk thing, then he probably won't.
And since you aren't going batty, and you are not going to initiate one for him, you are going to be upbeat happy sexy funny, walking talking full of faith perfection.
You go girl!!
Oh! Did I say that you need to pray too?
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!