In the end, I thought that people that make/create families and bonds are wiser and smarter than just look for...excitement with a new face afew years down the road when the going gets tough or boring. I am almost 40 and have had my share of...fun before I got married. I GOT married because I knew his worst side was still something I could live with and be happy with. He should have done the same before he proposed. I thought he had. Another proof that assumptions are dangerous...
I couldn`t agree more. I waited 11 years before having children with H...to be sure that he was the right one to bring children into the world with. Thanks for putting it so well.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
