For the record H has asked to have R talks with me before, but has never come through nor have we had any really meaningful R talks.
MAL, H's words and actions don't match and never have..this is something that I recognize and have to pay very close attention to at this point. H says one thing and does another...without fail....in the past it would drive me batty and I would just get fed up and blow up. But now I am intuned to this "quirk" of my H's.
