^^^^ Ditto, Ditto, and DITTO.

SR- I agree with everything FM says. It's time to focus on you now and letting go for yourself. If she comes back to you later, fantastic. If not, you'll be a lot happier if you deal with this stuff and make YOU and DD a priority, taking charge of your life.

(with love)

alice


When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.