Well I see some people that can simply 'forget the past' and move on to never look back. Perhaps some of the WAS?
For me I think I'll be around after the D is over. Reading old posts is painful for me. It reminds me how many years have been wasted over this drama.
Wii, you did a great job of helping your DD work though the issues. It's too bad STBX (she's still STB?) isn't capable of being the calm, composed adult like you.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again