I guess I should include that I have a suspicious phone number with this latest lie, but it appears to be a prepaid cell. I haven't have an OW to contact with any of the recent EAs. So that's not really an option unless I'd find something on the prepaid cell number which isn't likely.

Also, I'm not sure I want to save my M. I just know I need to focus on myself for once, for now, and hopefully do damage control.

Again, advice appreciated.


M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years