I feel it's quite healthy to leave a M that isnt working. And yes, maybe some of us did fail to see the signs early _I did_
On the other hand, how can a M still have a chance and suddenly not anymore and guess what? Eaxctly when another person comes in the picture? The lies, disrespect and hurt, the EAs and PAs which seem to be present in 99,9% of the cases here make me and others strict with WASs...
In the end, I thought that people that make/create families and bonds are wiser and smarter than just look for...excitement with a new face afew years down the road when the going gets tough or boring. I am almost 40 and have had my share of...fun before I got married. I GOT married because I knew his worst side was still something I could live with and be happy with. He should have done the same before he proposed. I thought he had. Another proof that assumptions are dangerous... K
