What books like "Not just friends" or "After the affair" tell on how affairs happen and why. How you get all doped, how chemicals mess up with everything, how it's unfair to compare your husband with a lover, etc

I've learned all this. I think it's only fair she knows what really happened to us. Even if we never get back together. Whether she learns from that or not, that's her problem.

I don't know why I think I still owe her that as a human being.

Last edited by FormelyknownasF; 05/08/10 05:44 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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