Cathy,

We both know I am no expert here, but I like Ellie's ideas.

When both of you are stressed, and both of you are right now. It really isn't a good time to talk.

I have proven that time and time again in my sitch!

At least learn something from my mistakes!!!


Act as if he is staying not that he might be leaving!


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"