still separated, headed for D?

[Cadet]

I have a question: what made you decide to start "peeking out" and going dim instead of dark? How did you transition out of dark?

Try this thread for your answer:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=190969&page=1

Reconnecting usually goes in reverse order of the bomb. LBS is last on the list, children, other people first.

I don't know if that helps.