flowmom, re: "quite a few contributing factors" ... I'm sure you're right. That's probably true for everyone here. But there's no point looking back, is there? Not much we can do about the past. Just have to keep doing our best moving forward one day at a time.

H 42
Me 47
DS 7
T 18
M 16
Bomb: 4/20/10
H leaves to live at Mom's: 4/30/20

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1990503#Post1990503