Just found out she already filed

[flowmom]

HotRomeo, I haven`t posted much lately, and as you know I`ve detached a lot from my sitch. Coming back to your thread I`m having a very strong reaction to your sitch. I want to be clear that my advice to you is coloured by my own sitch, how I`m feeling today, etc. But you and I are in similar sitches in some ways. The major difference is that you are not financially dependent like I am and you therefore have more latitude to take action.

First, I would love to see you drop the rope. It`s time. At this point I don`t see that you have anything to lose. Your W has filed, and playing `Mr Nice Guy` is getting you nowhere. Sorry if that sounds harsh. Time for a drastic 180. Fake it until you make it. Catapult yourself out of victim mode and put yourself in the driver`s seat. Read a bunch of stuff by Gnosis, Puppy, Coach, Robx, gucci and get them on your thread if you can.

Second, you`re coming off as depressed to me. It will be a zillion times easier to deal with your sitch if you deal with the depression. Men have a much harder time with recognizing depression than women do. I recommend using whatever crutches you can to help your PMA and be the best father that you can be during a very difficult life stage.

(((HotRomeo)))