I am not out to demonize WASs! :-) I hope you really aren't blaming yourself. I hope that was just venting. I still hold sympathy for most WASs (including mine) because they are living a delusion (I hope I used that term correctly). ESCAPING and not sticking through the rain to wait for the rainbow.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004