Quote: What is your plan for talking tonight? What are the areas or behaviors that you need to avoid to make it a productive meeting for YOU?
First of all I want to ask him what prompted his move back last week and then go from there. I don't want to act desparate or clingy, so from there I'm not sure really what we are going to talk about. I want him to know that I understand he's having a hard time and that I'm not going to pressure him into talking about anything he's not ready to talk about. How do I ask him to stop seeing OW? Do I say at some point OW has to be out of the picture if you really want our marriage to heal. Is OW what you want? Do you know want to be home? I think we have a better chance of making our marriage work if you are here.
I know we'll have our ups and downs and I want you to know that I'm not going be constantly throwing this in your face, that I have forgiven you, if that's what you want.
Right now I'm scared, scared H will move out again, but I really think H wanted to be home, but didn't realize the pull OW would have on him, especially if she remaines in the picture.
