Told you its not always as it seems in the other R.You think shes happy but when you dont see her you cant tell. Is there anyone you know that may have told her about your dinner date? My H did the same with D's Xmas and Bday cards..came to the house, asked me if I wanted him to drop them off..WTF?
Shes getting worried you are not pursuing, chasin after her, GALing...she noticing...shes there because you are playing it right. Youre right she should look fab after her holiday in Italy but as I said in a previous thread she now be realising whats she got herself into..prob starting to see the the Om for what he is.Perahps not as attentive as you, out working, she cant trust him,will be wondering what he is doing. Why do you feel odd? Did you fell quite detached and unemotional? Shes not brought your belongings cos shes not finished with the R in my view..shes visted to check up on where you are.Did right not talking R, finishing speaking first..you becoming an expert on this well done....her wee bubble has just burst is my guess!!!
What do you want to do? I would suggest watch and wait over the next week to see hat she does next.In meantime do what you are doing itts working.
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith
