I am learning a lot from reading about your journey. I amazes me what commitment is required to be true to oneself in M. You are showing so much strength in doing that. I hope that your H sees the beauty in being with a woman who is not willing to settle.

Kalni, sorry if I missed this but are you still in MC with your H? Is it possible to create some structure around talking about the A with your H? Perhaps doing it in MC would create a more safe context for doing that?

hugs to you.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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