Quote: H said didn't you realize I wasn't home last night? I said yes
He certainly understands what he is doing is not right. And it seems that he was expecting a different reaction from you. Calling, checking, all of that and when he didn't get that reaction he called to see what was going on.
Sounds like (IMHO only) that he needs to be made aware of your boundries. Kind of a Tough Love approach. 'Cause your right, he may physically be in your house, but he is not home yet. Your M is for 2 not 3. She must go.
Cathy, I feel for you. Hang in there.
What is your plan for talking tonight? What are the areas or behaviors that you need to avoid to make it a productive meeting for YOU?
