Know what you mean Barb, last year when ex was fired for reasons that he is lucky not to be in jail for! he def. hit some sort of rock bottom ( or so we thought) he made references to not wanting to live, and i said to him.. for once in your life think of someone besides yourself! you can get up, dust yourself off and start again, if you did something to yourself, your son , not to mention your elderly mother ( and other fam members) would have to live with it, suck it up and carry on!
It angered me that he would even speak this way, after all the other hurt he had caused people-
Your friends ex must of known what an impact this would have on his family and on his daughters birthday, just selfish and awful!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
