Shel its so hard not to ctc.I am in my 8th mnth of no ctc.I was encouraged to see imLin had very little ctc too.The website is a must seriously you will think someone wrote it for you H.I am just learning to live with it after 10minths.((hugs

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith