I know it must be so difficult.You are getting very close now to fixing your sitch.The detachment is key and after 9 months, I am just getting to the point where I believe I am almost there cos I dont think or care as much about what he is doiing.
These OP are vile creatures and shouldnt share the same air we breath, in my view.
Your wife as I said is a very lucky woman and perhaps as I suggested previously maybe a family weekend away to a favourite place may just be that final jigsaw piece that lets your W see what shes missing, her family.
I think shes nearly there Bond ,take care you ar our lighthouse so keep the ligt burning.(((hugs


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith