Positive Lifetime Attitude Award Goes to...

[newmama]

As soon as we spend any time together at all, I'm unsure, depressed, sad, angry, hurt, and impotent.

See, your body and intuition is starting to tell you it could be time to do something different. Is it going dim? What would that look like? What are the things you haven't tried yet?

For me, I feel like I did everything except going dim so that is what made me do it- not to mention he is going to D me so might as well? lol! And I feel like a huge weight has been lifted every time I don't have to see him....which is 90% time.

Are you thinking of something like you move out or he moves out? Or do you want to try something like severe 180 in house...cutting off things you used to do. Being busy and gone. Not talking to him much except hi and bye....what types of things?