I have you in my prayers. If she says its over come get your things. I think it best to say "OK". And then I think you go and get your stuff.

Then go about your business without looking back. It is the honorable and attractive thing to do.

Take care,
-T


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1