Hi Mal,

Thanks for stopping by I need everything I can get today.

This makes the most sense for now, unconditional love because this is what I feel today. Thought about this last night as I was laying in bed.

Am I being a doormat?
I'm doing my damnest to not let him push my buttons, but what does he have to push so hard.
I will not pursue H tonight
I will not question H tonight
IMHO--it's common courtesy to call and let someone know where you're at or if you're not coming home. This does take me back to my highschool days and the hell I put my mom through by not coming home at night, not being there at curfew....what goes around comes around..

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Why don't you wait and see if he explains where he was? Then take it from there. Whatever you do, don't push. Because you could push him right out the door. He's watching you too, to see how you react, how you've changed. He's going to want "walking talking perfection" from you. That's impossible to be, I know. Yet, I think you can be pretty darn close to it. Don't give him a reason to blame you for his confusion or for him giving up, okay?

I hope this is making sense.




Perfect Sense! All of it.

Thank you.

Cathy