My W says you nailed it. She says I play to win (but isn't that the way we are suppose to play Coach?). However, in this argument/conversation, I really did think I tried to keep it more a conversation than an argument. She says she "perceived" it differently. Something I need to work on.
I have been inviting her read things I write here. I enjoy being here and if not giving advice, at least encouraging people that are going through difficult times. Sometimes I think she is a little insecure about me being on here. Last night, she asked "Are people talking about me again?" I understand why she would feel that way, so I let her read what write and many of your responses. I think that is the best way to go. Hiding that I come here doesn't seem right nor does not coming here at all. So I think inviting her to be a part is the best way to go.
Coach, she likes you. She says your funny
Puppy, she says it's obvious you agree with the law and I don't think she gets your humor. However, keep it coming, I enjoyed it.