All the great advice here is making my head spin....
I feel that at this point, I have all the power, H might think H does, but I'm watching this just as closely as H is...if this drinking sh*t doesn't quit, than frankly I don't know that I want to stay with him, mainly because of our son.
I'm not going anywhere tonight but home. I do have plans for this weekend with gf's to go a football game and hockey game and then out for drinks. I have been doing this the whole time H has been gone, the more I'm out there the more chance of me meeting someone else, not that that's why I'm looking for, but hey it came happen.
Quote: It's no coincidence that when the LBS finally gives up and moves on, the WAS often tries to come back. Isn't it better to trigger some of that jealousy now, before it's too late?
I thought I had been triggering jealousy the whole time as H is always questioning me on where I'm going, who I'm with, do I have a BF, and such. When I am ready to move on I will move on and not look back, it'll be late by then as if my H gets this desparate to make all these changes I don't believe that he would be able to follow through, he hasn't up until now, nor for any other relationship he's been in.
Quote: If, on the other hand, he sees that his W has a life, friends, and maybe, just maybe, there is a possibility SHE might meet someone new
Ellie I've had all this through the whole summer and H knows it.
