(((Mila))) Your grace, dignity and style are an inspiration.
It is human nature to want what we can't have. By being dark with your H I believe he will then begin thinking about what he's giving up and realize that he is a FOOL.
It will take some time for this to happen, but use it to focus on you. Continue to GAL and remain mysterious. I predict that as attached to you as your H seems to be this will make him turn his focus on you wondering what you're doing, and ow will eventually be in your shoes.
Have a great weekend, and remember it's all about you!