WAH rang me today about meeting up tomorrow to exchange some admin stuff. We spoke first about where I was (I was at the market), BIL and general stuff. I was with my parents at the time and he said sheepily, "tell them hello from me if you think it's..appropriate". I said OK. Then there was a long silence and I just waited for him to say something...let him do the work... and he said "So, I would like to see you....maybe for coffee in the morning". I said OK.
The purpose of the rendexvous is mainly administrational, but to be honest, if I was playing dark/dim I could have had someone else be the go-between.
I think he probably wants to suss me out on my recent "can't be friends" follow-up statement to him.
The communication after that was post my Coaching session, me apolgising for saying 'f off' and calling our baby by her name.
He knows I have..softened.
So how do I be tomorrow?
NO R talk NO OW talk NO resentful statements (bitterness is ugly) Do I act friendly?
Do I do a Robx? Alongs the lines of, "yeah you're right, I don't want this M either, this is not working for either of us, I've only just realised it. Oops, is that the time? Gotta run, got better things to do! Are they contractions coming on?!".