I guess this doesn't get any easier once they move back, does it...
Quote: And, as usualy, YOU cannot fight this battle for him. I am not sure how I would approach him when you talk to him. Perhaps say nothing and wait for his explanation, if he offers one. Love and support him. Don't let him push any buttons.
Love and Support and not letting him push my buttons is my plan for tonight. I mean really what can I do about it? It was H's choice, it's H's hell and I cannot do anything to change him. I won't make H feel bad as I'm sure H feels bad enough, H won't act that way, but I know he will.